Yelled at by parents...
Students who don't listen and have attitude issues...
A mouse nested in my desk over the summer so I had to disinfect it...
And now on my 3-day weekend = Food poisoning...
I hope it's like what Mom said - get all the bad stuff out of the way to begin with and then the rest of the year will be much better.
On the plus side:
The parent issue has been resolved.
The students are remembering how to listen.
My desk is now mouse-free.
I'm starting to feel like myself - and it could have been during the week where I would have had to miss school.
I did a little math - impressive since math isn't my thing - I teach 10 classes and 3 of them are giving me a hard time... that means that only 30% of them are giving me trouble... so 70% are going quite well. Trying to find the positive and focus on that.
And best of all my new principal is EXTREMELY supportive. She consults with me on things to get my feedback (since it directly impacts me) and she's on my side with upset parents and students.
Monday, September 05, 2011
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Dear current and former teachers:
I've got a question for you... How do you get over/deal with the following situation:
A student makes a bad decision.
You try to correct the student's behavior, implementing an appropriate punishment.
The parent attacks you - "How dare you!?! My child doesn't deserve this treatment!"
I find it extremely difficult to deal with and I wind up taking it very personally. What it says to me is that the parents see me as the bad teacher and/or think I'm out to get their kid...
How could I do my job if I didn't love my students?
How could I possibly do my job if I wasn't absolutely committed to trying to educate my students to be safe and responsible technology users and all-around good people?
I go to a Middle School 200+ days a year. I'm surrounded by almost 300 pre-teens and teens who have raging hormones, varied home lives and backgrounds, and attitudes galore.
I listen to their stories. I cry at the indignities of their lives. I see the adults they will be and I pray for their futures.
I see them in the grocery store. I see them at the post office. I see them two hours away in Denver at a Target.
They shout "Hey Ms. E!" and run up to me wherever I am.
I do a good job and I care about my students.
And then I have parents questioning my commitment to teaching, my decision making, and the way I run my classroom.
Maybe the parents are just being defensive because they know their child made a bad decision and they feel ultimately responsible.
Whatever the reason.... How do I deal with it? How do I keep it from feeling personal?
A student makes a bad decision.
You try to correct the student's behavior, implementing an appropriate punishment.
The parent attacks you - "How dare you!?! My child doesn't deserve this treatment!"
I find it extremely difficult to deal with and I wind up taking it very personally. What it says to me is that the parents see me as the bad teacher and/or think I'm out to get their kid...
How could I do my job if I didn't love my students?
How could I possibly do my job if I wasn't absolutely committed to trying to educate my students to be safe and responsible technology users and all-around good people?
I go to a Middle School 200+ days a year. I'm surrounded by almost 300 pre-teens and teens who have raging hormones, varied home lives and backgrounds, and attitudes galore.
I listen to their stories. I cry at the indignities of their lives. I see the adults they will be and I pray for their futures.
I see them in the grocery store. I see them at the post office. I see them two hours away in Denver at a Target.
They shout "Hey Ms. E!" and run up to me wherever I am.
I do a good job and I care about my students.
And then I have parents questioning my commitment to teaching, my decision making, and the way I run my classroom.
Maybe the parents are just being defensive because they know their child made a bad decision and they feel ultimately responsible.
Whatever the reason.... How do I deal with it? How do I keep it from feeling personal?
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Fun new discovery - a blog that finds links to a variety of free e-books. I've started using the Kindle App on my phone and the Overdrive App through my local library. I love free books!
Books on the Knob
Books on the Knob
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Relief from the heat
I'm back in Colorado after a month in Texas where they were having record breaking temperatures and it was over a hundred degrees every day.
Yuck.
Today's top temperature was 80 degrees and it felt gooooood.
Now back to the boxes and boxes... have to finish unpacking before I go back to work!
Yuck.
Today's top temperature was 80 degrees and it felt gooooood.
Now back to the boxes and boxes... have to finish unpacking before I go back to work!
Monday, July 11, 2011
Moved but not settled in
The last couple of months have been crazier than usual.
Then end of the school year - fellow teacher staying with me for a few days while she was in-between homes - Aya and family visiting for a week - packing up to move - Dad here for a week helping me move - the big (pain-in-my-bum) move - and today I finally turned in my key for the old place.
My new place is a MESS. It literally looks like a localized tornado broke out or that the boxes simultaneously puked their contents all over the place.
Yes. It's THAT bad.
Ugh.
This is why I waited 3 years to move - because I realllllly hate it.
I think I'll be much happier here... at least that's the hope. And I'm hoping I'll be healthier here. It's not nearly as dusty as where I lived before. They opened a gravel pit down the road from my old place last summer and it went from being annoyingly dusty to impossibly dusty. I would start at one end and by the time I was done dusting the other end of the place the first half would need dusting again. Disgusting.
I have high hopes for this place. A yard for Kaylee. A big front window for Sheba. A living room 3 times the size of my old one for me.
Yay!
Here are a few pictures from my last trip through the park:
Then end of the school year - fellow teacher staying with me for a few days while she was in-between homes - Aya and family visiting for a week - packing up to move - Dad here for a week helping me move - the big (pain-in-my-bum) move - and today I finally turned in my key for the old place.
My new place is a MESS. It literally looks like a localized tornado broke out or that the boxes simultaneously puked their contents all over the place.
Yes. It's THAT bad.
Ugh.
This is why I waited 3 years to move - because I realllllly hate it.
I think I'll be much happier here... at least that's the hope. And I'm hoping I'll be healthier here. It's not nearly as dusty as where I lived before. They opened a gravel pit down the road from my old place last summer and it went from being annoyingly dusty to impossibly dusty. I would start at one end and by the time I was done dusting the other end of the place the first half would need dusting again. Disgusting.
I have high hopes for this place. A yard for Kaylee. A big front window for Sheba. A living room 3 times the size of my old one for me.
Yay!
Here are a few pictures from my last trip through the park:
Friday, June 17, 2011
Aya, D and Baby are here!
They're here for a few days and we spent today walking around one of the local towns and we took a short drive to the park. I'm especially happy with the bull moose pictures! It's only taken me 3 years to get pictures of moose with decent-sized antlers!
Sunday, June 05, 2011
Recent Pictures
***You can click on any of the pictures to see a larger version.
This crazy house is located just off I-70, outside Denver. It was featured in the 1973 Woody Allen Film, "Sleeper." I like it because it reminds me of something from the Jetson's.
Momma and yearling moose.
Male moose... just starting to get his antlers!
This crazy house is located just off I-70, outside Denver. It was featured in the 1973 Woody Allen Film, "Sleeper." I like it because it reminds me of something from the Jetson's.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Snip. Snip. Snip.
At School Board meeting and they're making MAJOR cuts.
- one elementary closed
- two high school sports cut
- increased student, activity, and athletic fees
- third year in a row with no pay increases for faculty or staff
I figured it out and after taxes I would be making $200 more per month without three years of frozen pay. That would sure come in handy with cost of living constantly on the rise.
It is in our contract that we get paid for our increased experience until we top the scale.
I'm looking to move to a smaller/cheaper place this summer cuz I can't afford my cost of living.
- one elementary closed
- two high school sports cut
- increased student, activity, and athletic fees
- third year in a row with no pay increases for faculty or staff
I figured it out and after taxes I would be making $200 more per month without three years of frozen pay. That would sure come in handy with cost of living constantly on the rise.
It is in our contract that we get paid for our increased experience until we top the scale.
I'm looking to move to a smaller/cheaper place this summer cuz I can't afford my cost of living.
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Saturday, May 21, 2011
Things you overhear on the playground...
This happened a couple of weeks ago...
"Do you think guys have to shampoo and condition their beards and mustaches?"
I told them I would ask my dad.... So, Dad?
"Do you think guys have to shampoo and condition their beards and mustaches?"
I told them I would ask my dad.... So, Dad?
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An evening...
Thursday evening I stayed late at work to finish a project. I then went to the grocery store to pick up a couple of things. As I was leaving I ran into four of my students. They took one look at my bag and one said, "Yum pizza!" And another said, "Oooo toilet paper. Are going to to somebody's house?"
Ah the mind of a middle school boy. And I had been wondering if I should be embarrassed about them seeing me buying tp.... Silly me!
When I got home I let Kaylee outside and I filled her food bowl. When I let her in Sheba was sniffing the filled bowl, as she does. Well Kaylee was whining and running back and forth between the food bowl, trying to chase Sheba off, and her kennel. Very odd behavior, even for her.
I went over to see what was up and discovered she had a bone in her mouth... some sort of rib bone. She was trying to protect her food bowl from the vicious feline AND keep her prize bone hidden and safe.
Now our "back yard" is really a small-ish, paved pattio area with a 4.5 ft wooden fence around it.
So my question was, "Where the heck did that come from?"
I checked and there wasn't a rotting corpse back there... which left two possibilities....
1. One of my neighbors threw the bone over their fence into my yard (we're all connected townhouses).
2. The second option, and I feel the most likely one, is that our little neighborhood fox has a crush on her and was trying to impress her. This explains his frequent visits, attempts at playing with Kaylee, and the bone miraculously appearing in our fortress-like back yard.
Now, unfortunately for Kaylee, I'm one of those insanely protecive moms and since I didn't know for sure where the bone came from, if it had been cooked and might shatter, I waited until she wasn't looking and threw it away. I'm a mean momma.
Ah the mind of a middle school boy. And I had been wondering if I should be embarrassed about them seeing me buying tp.... Silly me!
When I got home I let Kaylee outside and I filled her food bowl. When I let her in Sheba was sniffing the filled bowl, as she does. Well Kaylee was whining and running back and forth between the food bowl, trying to chase Sheba off, and her kennel. Very odd behavior, even for her.
I went over to see what was up and discovered she had a bone in her mouth... some sort of rib bone. She was trying to protect her food bowl from the vicious feline AND keep her prize bone hidden and safe.
Now our "back yard" is really a small-ish, paved pattio area with a 4.5 ft wooden fence around it.
So my question was, "Where the heck did that come from?"
I checked and there wasn't a rotting corpse back there... which left two possibilities....
1. One of my neighbors threw the bone over their fence into my yard (we're all connected townhouses).
2. The second option, and I feel the most likely one, is that our little neighborhood fox has a crush on her and was trying to impress her. This explains his frequent visits, attempts at playing with Kaylee, and the bone miraculously appearing in our fortress-like back yard.
Now, unfortunately for Kaylee, I'm one of those insanely protecive moms and since I didn't know for sure where the bone came from, if it had been cooked and might shatter, I waited until she wasn't looking and threw it away. I'm a mean momma.
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Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Monday, May 09, 2011
I'm still here....
The school year is winding down, even though we still have four and a half weeks left.
This is the time of the year when we have field trips and assemblies, our last school dance and last band and choir concerts.... there's a lot going on.
In between all of that I've was bit by the "Spring Cleaning Bug." That's keeping me pretty busy on the evenings and weekends.
I donated a full trailer-load worth of old furniture and assorted items to a local church. They have a big fund-raising garage sale every year and they even sent someone to pick it up! I'm happy to be getting rid of stuff and that it's going to a good cause. They're happy because they got a bunch of free stuff to sell at their fundraiser.
I'm participating in another fund raising event this evening. This one is a Brain Bowl Competition amongst community members - we put together a teacher team - in order to raise money for our 8th grade boys to go to the National Brain Bowl Competition in Chicago this summer! Each team chipped in $50 and the money goes towards their trip.
Tomorrow night we have Portfolio night where the parents come in and check out their kids' portfolios.
And well... you get the point!
Busy days.
I'm taking a break this weekend - going back down to the Alpaca Ranch to visit with them and with my parents who will be there for a couple of days.
I like my fortune cookie from last Friday: "Over prepare, then go with the flow."
That's how I live my life.
This is the time of the year when we have field trips and assemblies, our last school dance and last band and choir concerts.... there's a lot going on.
In between all of that I've was bit by the "Spring Cleaning Bug." That's keeping me pretty busy on the evenings and weekends.
I donated a full trailer-load worth of old furniture and assorted items to a local church. They have a big fund-raising garage sale every year and they even sent someone to pick it up! I'm happy to be getting rid of stuff and that it's going to a good cause. They're happy because they got a bunch of free stuff to sell at their fundraiser.
I'm participating in another fund raising event this evening. This one is a Brain Bowl Competition amongst community members - we put together a teacher team - in order to raise money for our 8th grade boys to go to the National Brain Bowl Competition in Chicago this summer! Each team chipped in $50 and the money goes towards their trip.
Tomorrow night we have Portfolio night where the parents come in and check out their kids' portfolios.
And well... you get the point!
Busy days.
I'm taking a break this weekend - going back down to the Alpaca Ranch to visit with them and with my parents who will be there for a couple of days.
I like my fortune cookie from last Friday: "Over prepare, then go with the flow."
That's how I live my life.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
That Time of The Year
There are only 6 weeks of school left.
and
The weather is wonky - rain, snow, rain, snow, rain, sun, wind, snow, rain, snow....
You get the idea...
They're bouncing off the walls... It's the hardest time of the year for the teachers and for the students. I'm always so glad when it's over.
Just 6 more weeks.
and
The weather is wonky - rain, snow, rain, snow, rain, sun, wind, snow, rain, snow....
You get the idea...
They're bouncing off the walls... It's the hardest time of the year for the teachers and for the students. I'm always so glad when it's over.
Just 6 more weeks.
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Spring Break 2011
I spent a week at Victory Ranch visiting friends, spinning, crocheting, watching critters, a trip to the hot springs, and even some yoga.
EXACTLY what I needed.
EXACTLY what I needed.
Saturday, April 02, 2011
*AchEEW!*... *SPLAT*
That's quite the wake up call... especially at 4 in the morning.
Now I realize that when you gotta sneeze - you gotta sneeze... but is it too much to ask for a kitty to turn her head to keep from sneezing all over my face in the middle of the night/morning? I mean really... that was a rude/gross awakening. I think Sheba is extremely lucky that my spidey-like senses kicked in BEFORE I reflexively smacked her in the face... I'm just saying...
Now I realize that when you gotta sneeze - you gotta sneeze... but is it too much to ask for a kitty to turn her head to keep from sneezing all over my face in the middle of the night/morning? I mean really... that was a rude/gross awakening. I think Sheba is extremely lucky that my spidey-like senses kicked in BEFORE I reflexively smacked her in the face... I'm just saying...
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